Soulmate Demystify

Do you believe in soulmates? Have you met anyone who can hear your thoughts? How to increase the chance of finding that special one?

Believe in the concept of soulmates?

Here is some fact check according to Marist Poll:

• 73% of Americans believe in soulmates.
• More men than women (74% of men vs. 71% of women) believe in finding the perfect partner.
• Younger people are more likely to believe in the existence of soulmates than the older ones (80% of under the age of 30 vs. 65% of those above the age of 60.)

Should you believe in soulmates?

"Awareness of your stance on the notion of soulmates is far more than a philosophical exercise. How you relate to the soulmate idea impacts how you think, feel, and act in your intimate relationship," according to Dr. Alexandra Solomon, an assistant clinical professor in Northwestern University's Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy program.

What is a soulmate anyway?

Research indicates that your very own definition of soulmates impacts your relationship quality directly. Plenty of scientists, psychologists, and researchers have given the definition of soulmates. Many people have testified their personal experience with a soulmate. A good working formula that deciphers soulmate can be found in LoveMaze.

On a personal and practical level, there is a common trap for soulmate believers: "If I've found my soulmate, the relationship just works without any effort. My soulmate is my perfect match." Nothing is perfect. Soulmate believers tend to focus on "finding" than "cultivating" a relationship. When something negative happens in the relationship, they tend to move on to find a better one or "the one" than working on the problems, forgetting that "this one" might be "the one."

A realistic understanding and definition of soulmates, plus an expectation of the continuous nurturing effort are the keys to a long-term sustainable fulfilling relationship. Embrace the concept of growth and keep asking yourself these internal questions: "How can I be a better partner?" "What can I do to make this better?"

Start with defining your concept of soulmates and find those who share your thoughts in LoveMaze.

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